Added: October 30th, 2008
The first night is a sacrament in which woman’s sensuality is born. It’s not just the painful process of defloration. One little indiscretion is enough to provoke a girl’s negative reflex to a sexual intercourse. If a man doesn’t give enough caresses and understanding the girl who has been deflorated by a partner in a hurry can become frigid. Most frigid women complain of roughness of their first sexual partner. That is why you can entrust defloration to a loving and loved partner who is preferably not a virgin, instead of yielding to some pretty guy who, as you think, is ready to be responsible for making you a woman because it is already high time according to your age. Virginity is not a barrier between childhood and adulthood which one should jump over as soon as possible. You should remember that defloration is always accompanied by the fear of pain and involuntary contractions of vaginal muscles which stand in the way of a penis. You need to relax, and then everything will be easier. A man should do it softly, tenderly but confidently. As in everything else the happy medium is important here: make haste slowly. Then the rupture of your virginal membrane will be almost painless for you.
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